The first thing people notice is my self confidence.
My approach to any interaction is a mix of seduction, attention, and intensity. Making someone feel seen is a very powerful thing to do and some may want to run away from it, but the ones that do not will experience desire in a way they only fantasized.
I feel very comfortable taking the lead. My approach tends to be quite nurturing yet intimidating. However, my style varies with each relationship and is tailored to each individual.
Being dominant is about assuming responsibilities and control that a submissive is happy to relinquish. A submissive has one crucial power and that is to surrender their autonomy in that dynamic. This is why trust and communication are so important to me and in a D/s dynamic. Leading comes natural to me which is how I make my submissives feel comfortable under my authority.
My BDSM journey has been a gradual yet abundant accumulation of experience and knowledge. A good Domme knows what boundaries to push and how to push them without straining a submissive and I hope to be able to explore those vulnerable areas together. I have had submissives come to me using our sessions as a form of catharsis, punishment, release, or escape from reality and whatever submission means to you, I will create that environment for you.
I have cultivated my life to be kink oriented because I have such a passion for it, but I do have little bits of vanilla in my life. I was born in a little village in Ukraine which I still visit annually. I lived in the United States most of my life prior to moving to the UK. I was an amateur boxer for 3 years and weight lifting has continued to be a big part of my life ever since. I am an avid reader and I am very interested in science and research hence why I moved to London to study psychology. I am now based in New York City, but I am a frequent traveller since I am lucky enough to have so many places to call home!