Interview with Mistress Blunt

We discuss pegging, topspace, censorship, & everything Mommy! Listen to the full video if you want to hear us go into depth about my domination style and my ethos behind my approach.

Soft White Underbelly Interview

I share an intimate look into my life as a woman, immigrant, and professional Dominatrix.

Dream Session

Imagine you and I spend the whole day together binging kink related movies. I make a whole playlist of movies that excite my sadistic little heart. I want to watch the rollercoaster of emotions you go through as you watch someone be castrated. Will you grimace or become erect? Seeing someone waterboarded as a result of betrayal. A character receiving lashings in front of everyone. A crucifixion. My mind runs wild as I’m inspired, thinking of what I’ll incorporate in our session. Then I proceed to dom you with the fear of castration in the back of your mind…

Sexual Sadism: Interview with Dasha Bond

Dasha Bond @dashbonda (insta) @dashbondar (twitter) sat down with me after we shot some scenes. We discussed her intro into FemDom and how she approaches client BDSM sessions. She explains how every submissive differs, why she prefers a phone call, and the fetishes that make her the horniest. 

I was featured on the Hanky Panky Podcast hosted by Hank @sirstinkie (insta). You can find my episode on Spotify here and Apple Podcasts here.

How to ask your partner to Dom you

The heteronormative script paints women as docile servants and men as stoic conquerers, but today, we are blurry the lines of the gender binary. It is completely natural and healthy to want to explore your sexuality. There is nothing shameful about veering away from the gendered stereotypes. Men are allowed to want intimacy and submit and women are allowed to be assertive and confident. You need to erase your schemas of what certain genders should adhere to. With that said, if you have a partner who you want to approach about exploring each other's sexuality in a different way, you need to remember if they shame you for wanting to be pegged or explore your feminine side, they are not a good partner to begin with. Not everyone is compatible sexually, I'm well aware of that as a Dominant woman, but there should never be shame unless there are fantasies that cross moral boundaries. Before approaching your partner, I think it's important to have a few activities/kinks you want to try in mind (e.g. pegging, sissification, bondage, etc.). If your partner is not comfortable with anything you've suggested, you need to reevaluate how important this is and how you can find an outlet for your desires. But if they are willing to explore this with you, I think either approaching someone more experienced or doing some research (or both) is important to make sure you have some idea of what you're getting into. I hope this helps and never keep people that make you feel bad about yourself in your life! Happy exploring!!!

Why miscommunication is cockblocking you!

I am currently reading a book and it has put into perspective the amount of miscommunication happening between men and women. So much of it is self sabotage. So many men who are seeking out the advice on how to date and successfully connect with women—whether it be emotionally and/or sexually—can be steered down the wrong path. As someone who has a voice and the attention of tens of thousands of men across all my platforms, I try to present myself as approachable and provide advice. At the end of the day so many of us are on a search of finding someone that gives us meaning, but when we get desperate, we are vulnerable. When I see incels and pickup artists giving hopeless romantics a sense community by guising their misogyny for romantic difficulty, it breaks my heart because these innocent men are then slowly being desensitised to their toxic rhetoric. Everyone can relate to being rejected or the inability to find the right "one," but these communities prey on that because we can be hopeless when we feel unlovable and I empathise.

I could go on about talking about the differences of the male and female gaze and misogyny and consent. But my point is, I appreciate all of the men who have reached out to me for advice whether it's how to take an appealing dick pic, satisfy their partner, enhance their dating profiles, explore bdsm, and all the other how-to's. If you want success in your dating life or sex life, ask women what they want, and it might be the opposite of what you've been taught to think women want. I can assure you that women have been screaming from the rooftops saying what they want in a heterosexual relationship, all you have to do is ask.