How to ask your partner to Dom you

The heteronormative script paints women as docile servants and men as stoic conquerers, but today, we are blurry the lines of the gender binary. It is completely natural and healthy to want to explore your sexuality. There is nothing shameful about veering away from the gendered stereotypes. Men are allowed to want intimacy and submit and women are allowed to be assertive and confident. You need to erase your schemas of what certain genders should adhere to. With that said, if you have a partner who you want to approach about exploring each other's sexuality in a different way, you need to remember if they shame you for wanting to be pegged or explore your feminine side, they are not a good partner to begin with. Not everyone is compatible sexually, I'm well aware of that as a Dominant woman, but there should never be shame unless there are fantasies that cross moral boundaries. Before approaching your partner, I think it's important to have a few activities/kinks you want to try in mind (e.g. pegging, sissification, bondage, etc.). If your partner is not comfortable with anything you've suggested, you need to reevaluate how important this is and how you can find an outlet for your desires. But if they are willing to explore this with you, I think either approaching someone more experienced or doing some research (or both) is important to make sure you have some idea of what you're getting into. I hope this helps and never keep people that make you feel bad about yourself in your life! Happy exploring!!!